Saturday, October 11, 2008

Work STRESS!!

I'm HAPPY & I LOVE my work...but im the kinda person that can be extremely stressful when people dont see things & do the way i want it to be.
Sometimes I think :
- Why does she want me to do that?
- How am i supposed to know what she's thinking?
- Is it so hard to process the payment? (ABBEY payment..ahhhh!! )
- Why am i treated this way? Why cant everyone be fair & understanding?

PK punya PK, every human being is different..no matter he/she is ur boss or your friends
n etc..still sees the world DIFFERENTLY from you. As such, I do need the Abbey payment (research software) to be paid asap but no ONE really care to process it. (maybe derang pk tak penting bayar cepat2..tp skang da lama..aiyak! pending sumer kije ). I've tried my best to
focus on this matter but still nothing is happening here. Why is it sooo HARD?? Sabar Zaid..this is not a problem, it's just a CHALLENGE ( I learned dis from ma' boss - DR.N..very positive person). One day, I was instructed to see one of the top management person at my office to discuss on how to go about dis payment & kesimpulannya I kena perli (Do you expect KP to deal dis payment for you?? )
woww..haha. Relax..challenge kan..remember zack? ehe. If only I can process the payment myself..i'll do it.
Well, remember korunk, your boss ke..your staff ke, your collegues ke..all see the world and situations differently from you & they're not necessarily doing or saying something just to annoy you/me! In any situation, there will always be "aku pk camni" ,"aku nampak camtu" & "camni la..".
There is absolutely no point in getting stressed over the fact that these people dont see in the way I see it. I know getting stressed is bad for me & it doesnt change any situation AT ALL.
(aku kan salu stress..haha). No matter wut happen to me..how hard people COMMENTS/ say bad things about me..i'll stand firm & strong with my principles and the way i carry myself.
I'll never allow other people's behaviour to decide mine. I will decide my own behaviour and i'll always treat others with courtesy and respect. However, up to them to behave the way they wanna behave.
So, dont let your boss/friends/gf/ any one else "STRESS YOU OUT". Just remember ma' buddies, they just see the world in a different way. Havin said all these..aku still stress ma..
tp better than before la..hehehe.
Ok la, nak g siap2..open house..haa..ni one of the way I wanna reduce ma' stress level..hihi.
Makan2..borak2..gelak2..luper keje & work stress' . Tp for awhile je la kan, sok ada balik.
No matter wut happen guys, CHILL ok..Selamat Hari Raya Maaf Zahir & Batin. :-)

5 comments:

Adam Arjuna said...

beb..!!
nice entry..kena sgt ngan masa!
aku pon mmg stress gile ngan keja skang. dalam otak aku skang pk nak benti, nak cari better opportunity to enhance my career..
actually aku hepi keje, but sumtimes i feel so dull..
bila kenangkan balik..jd tak puas ati sbb apa yg dpt tak sama cam yg len dpt..
tu yg buat aku stress sgt keja skng.
BIAS!!! tu je aku bley ckp..
salah aku nampak, but the rest..?? entah laa...

btw, keep updating good entry like this k..

Anonymous said...

hows it if the person who put the stress on us is our own gud fren?

"dun let anybodi else stress u out."

senang la ckp.but how to handle?

ppl say "communication,dats all it takes".
tp dat person is too ego to accept the fact yg dia tu slh.

bengong.

nk diluah mati mak,nk ditelan mati bapak.
want to be professional,but hv to sacrifice my own feeling.



wut to do?wut to do?
mr. zack,gimme some bright opinion pelis.if only i can be all positive like u n ur boss.hehe.

sekian saje;
yang buntu.
fazaziz.

KeMatZ said...

aku tak tau nak comment apa... but satu ajhe aku nak comment...

ko kena tag dari aku...
oleh kerana blog ko ni bersawang...
so sahutlahh cabaran itu ok...

ko ingat ko diva...

Adam Arjuna said...

u've been tag!

sila ke blog aku yerk..

SyuQ said...

nice blog zaid. apsal lama x update?